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"Syl said, it took me a long time but I’ve finally figured it out. When it comes to men that are romantically interested in you, it’s really simple. Just ignore everything they say and only pay attention to what they do. It’s that simple. It’s that easy."

This is an excerpt from 'The last lecture' by Randy. No, I'm neither going to introduce his lecture sprawled all over youtube nor am I going to say about his book...because I think I'll start crying then. I'm just telling you this much. It's one of the best videos I've ever seen.

Coming to the excerpt, I just thought I'd like to share this with all the young women out there like me.

It's true isn't it. Not just in romantic interests but in almost every relationship. Words are pretty, words are plenty but words can be empty. Deeds cannot be. Work and patterns of work reflect a person. Mt turtle , my photos, my blog, my degrees, they are me. And they show me clearer than myself. The day I posted something on consistency, if you asked me, I would've said I was consistent from that day onwards. If you asked me today I'd've totally believed myself and said I am still consistent. But I'm not. I stopped studying for the amount of time I planned to, I broke the blog chain and all that. It showed I'm not what I presume to be. When, by a clear assessment of words, me, a rational individual could not gauge my limits, when I cannot believe in my own words, how could I believe in any other ?

Work earns respect. This is simple right. Then we also agree that respect is a prerequisite for love ? Those who cannot earn that much, cannot ask for affection.